Available in both print and eBook editions

Sample the first two chapters of the book and read its many glowing five-star reviews on Amazon.

Selected Books for Widows and other grieving hearts . . .

Note that these books were selected in 2005 as examples of some of the helpful books on Amazon. Many new books have since been published, so please search Amazon for other books for widowers, grieving parents, and others who need help in coping with deep emotional loss. - Editor

The ABCs of Widowhood

by Pat Nowak

Book: Finding the Way Back to Joy

Awakening from Grief: Finding the Way Back to Joy

by Dr. Wayne Dyer

Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies 


Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies

by Marta Felber

Getting to the Other Side of Grief

Getting to the Other Side of Grief: Overcoming the Loss of a Spouse

by Susan J. Zonnebelt-Smeenge, & Robert Devries


Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love

Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love: Daily Meditations to Help You Through the Grieving Process

by Ray Mitsch & Lynn Brookside


Book: Healing a Spouse's Grieving Heart


Healing a Spouse's Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Your Husband or Wife Dies

by Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D.

How to Go On Living when Someone You Love Dies

How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies

by Therese A. Rando

I'm Grieving As Fast As I Can

I'm Grieving As Fast As I Can: How Young Widows and Widowers Can Cope and Heal

by Linda Sones Feinberg


Instantly a Widow

Instantly a Widow

by Ruth Sissom

When There Are No Words:
Finding Your Way to Cope with Loss and Grief

When There Are No Words: Finding Your Way to Cope With Loss and Grief

by Charlie Walton 

A Widow's Thoughts and Advice


A Series of Uplifting Articles for Widows and Other Grieving Hearts

by Barbara Brabec

Harry's Memorial Pages

February, 2015: Out with the Old, In with the New: "The Thoughts of a Widow Now Ten Years Into Her Journey." In this continuing series of articles for widows, Barbara talks about how nearing the ten-year mark in her journey prompted her to take another positive and life-changing widow's step.

2012-2013. Eight Years and Counting . . . Barbara did eBook editions of her memoir in 2012, and in 2013, she began to work on new eBooks and published A Few Choice Words about some of her travel adventures with Harry.

May, 2010. Five years into the Journey
Barbara decided the time was right to finally write the most important book of her life: the story of her life's journey with Harry (see left). Little did she know when she began this book in November 2009, shortly before her fifth anniversary as a widow, that the writing and self-publication of it would change her life. Now widows can journey with her by reading her memoir, The Drummer Drives! Everybody Else Rides and learn what she learned as she explored her late husband's life in a way she never imagined she would, or could.

"In researching and writing this book, I learned many new things about Harry that not only made me laugh, but were so uplifting that I found myself falling in love with him all over again."

BELOW, The original series of articles for new widows:

This first article in this series touched the hearts of many readers. Read their special supportive comments HERE.

April, 2005: The Survivor's Life Jacket
Now a widow for three months, Barbara shares her most personal feelings and the coping strategies she used to help her get past the initial shock of losing her husband, Harry, after nearly 44 years of marriage. This inspirational article includes widow resources, personal photos, and perspective on things everyone could do to prepare for the loss of a loved one or commemorate their memory afterwards.

June, 2005: The Grieving Process
Barbara reports on her conversations with widows and others who have lost loved ones, discussing why it's a mistake to try not to remember because it hurts too much, or to feel guilty for being able to laugh without your loved one. This uplifting report includes a new shot of Harry's Humor and how he is still making Barbara laugh even though he's gone, as well as more photos of Barbara's sweet little cat who is giving her lots of joy and comfort.

February 2006: One Year Into the Journey
Barbara shares her thoughts and feelings after her first year of widowhood, discussing the gains she has made, the emotional problems she continues to deal with, and what she has been doing in the past six months to help her get back into "work mode" and resume a normal life routine. This report includes the experiences of two other widows, plus inspirational quotes and resources for widows. Part II of this article, which discusses Writing as Therapy, explains how journaling and letter writing can help one release pent-up emotions during the grieving process. (Includes links to a host of related books and articles on the Web.)

"Love is eternal; it transcends even death. Although the person died, the love did not. Nothing can take away the love that you shared, ever. And nothing can take away the love that you continue to feel."
   - Ashley Davis Prend, author of Transcending Loss

"No one wants grief. Yet when it comes, it is too costly to be wasted. Sorrow must be put to good use. That's true whether we are mourning the loss of a loved one, a loss of health, or any other tragic reversal. If the energy of mourning can be translated into some positive change, there can be a feeling that the suffering or loss was not in vain."
    - from RBC Ministries "Discovery Series" booklet, Where Can We Find Comfort?

"Death ends a life, not a relationship. It struggles on in a survivor's mind toward some resolution which it may never find." - Words spoken by Gene Hackman at the end of the movie, I Never Sang for my Father.

Copyright © by Barbara Brabec 2005-2015.

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